Does Size Really Matter?

Seems to be the question that every person who owns a penis wants to really know right?! It honestly baffles me why this always comes up, and why it’s such a hot topic amongst men.


As a woman, I have always wondered whether guys talk about penis size in their friendship groups, or if they have that weird peek at the urinal in public bathrooms. Where does this mentality of “the bigger the penis, the better the man” come from? It’s time to bury it once and for all.

Firstly, whilst I am an avid supporter of all facets of this industry, I am going to place SOME blame on the porn industry. The inflated ideologies that penises need to be large to be enjoyed, couldn’t be further from the truth, and it’s also a timely reminder that porn is scripted. It can be as amateur as you like, but if a camera has been intentionally set up, there are always going to be elements within that scene that may be exaggerated. Sorry; truth hurts.


In terms of the body anatomy, penises come in all shapes and sizes. Some have bends, some are circumcised, some are long, some are short, some are thick, and some are thin, some even retract (especially if you use substances)! I am sure we have all heard the analogy “grower not a shower”, and this is also something to keep in mind- some penises are small when flaccid, but my golly do they surprise! Some may just subtly change in size when stroked the right way. There is no right or wrong on how a body should look or behave. That’s the beauty of it all- a box of chocolates; you never really know what you’re in for until you put it in your mouth!


We also need to remember that our partners also all have different preferences. I know at the end of the day- average is where I like it, probably on the thicker side. But I know for a fact that isn’t the same for other people. Some people love large and long penises, others prefer smaller, some people don’t enjoy penetration at all, so I mean your penis size is irrelevant at that point anyway!


The point I am trying to make here is that everyone is always going to be different- figuratively there is not one size that fits all on both sides of the fence. Yes, everyone will have preferences, but that will change depending on who you ask. At the end of the day, what are you going to do about it anyway if someone has a preference to something you don’t have? My advice? Work with what you have and get bloody good at foreplay. Everyone loves that!